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South African midwife and newborn specialist Karen Wilmot has created a day-by-day guide designed to help parents understand the first six weeks with their baby, not simply survive them. CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - There is no shortage of books telling new parents how to care for a baby. The harder question, says midwife, newborn specialist and author Karen Wilmot, is knowing what is normal for this particular day. The first six weeks after birth can feel like a constant cycle of feeding, sleeping, crying, nappies, recovery and second-guessing. What made sense yesterday can suddenly feel different today. Parents may find themselves asking the same questions repeatedly: Is my baby feeding enough? Why are they suddenly crying? Should they be sleeping more? Is this normal? After more than three decades working with mothers, babies and families, Wilmot believes one of the biggest gaps in newborn support is not information, it is context. That insight is at the heart of her new guide, Baby Steps to Six Weeks: A Day-by-Day Guide for New Mothers. Rather than presenting newborn care as a collection of general advice, the book follows the natural progression of the first 42 days, helping parents understand what they may be seeing at each stage and recognise patterns as they emerge. “At the beginning, parents don't necessarily need more information,” says Wilmot. “They need someone to help them understand what they are seeing, what is changing, what is normal and what may need attention. And they need that guidance in the context of where they are today.” The book is built around five foundational elements that dominate much of life with a newborn: feeding, output, sleep, cues and cries, and maternal self-care. Each day combines practical guidance with a structured record, allowing parents to track what is happening while developing a clearer understanding of their baby's individual patterns. The approach is deliberately different from a traditional …